Coworker has Romantic Interest

 If I think a coworker is romantically interested in me, what do I do? The problem is we are both married.

When married coworkers (presumably, in this case, at a law firm or agency) have affairs it generally reflects problems in their respective marriages that have not been adequately addressed. This “acting out” of feelings of anger, sadness, lack of fulfillment, etc. by starting a new romance can be appealing for the excitement and boost to your self-esteem, but generally leads to pain for all involved. Our recommendation is that, for the time being, you maintain distance from the person involved and come right to LCL for an evaluation of your situation, and referral for further assistance.

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